Thursday, November 30, 2017

Rocking the Research

Since Angela's surgery, we have been anxious to participate in research that will drive innovation and advancement for children with special needs.  Angela has been included in several medical and educational research projects over the past few years and we are always looking for new opportunities.

A few weeks ago, I was contacted by a research group that was preparing for a project authorized by a major designer clothing company.  The company is considering a line of adaptive clothing for children and adults with disabilities.  I responded and was interviewed for the program and we were accepted!!  I have always believed strongly that children with special needs should have access to the same fashion as other children, but children who require orthotics, or have physical limitations often have fewer clothing options available to them.  This is frustrating for me and I am always on the lookout for cute, yet practical clothes for Miss Angela.

Two weeks ago, our Tommy Hilfiger package arrived and I almost cried.  Really.  The clothes are THAT good.  They are cute and do not look "special".  The closures have magnets sewn into the fabric instead of buttons or snaps, and the (skinny) jeans have the magnets in the seam so the pants open to fit easily over Angela's leg brace.  The long-sleeved t-shirt has the same type of closure on the neckline so she can get it on easily with one hand.  I am posting pictures of her cuteness below, even though you can't see the magnets.  Isn't she adorable?



There is a dress, too, but I have not captured it in a photo yet.  I guess I really raved about how much I love the clothes because I was asked to send a video to share my thoughts with Tommy.  I am pretty sure we are besties now, don't you think? But seriously, I am so honored that we can be included in this project.  I am going to be furiously advocating for an adaptive clothing line to be available for all.  I will keep you posted......

Saturday, November 4, 2017

Why Give??

Toby and I have joined the fundraising campaign for the Brain Recovery Project, and yesterday our friends and family gave an amazing $500+ to the organization.  We are unspeakably touched and grateful.  A Facebook page, though, cannot really capture the essence of why this organization is so important.  We want you to know what you are giving to.

In early 2011, we were in the midst of a medical and bureaucratic nightmare.  Our precious Angie was having siezures as long as three hours in length despite numerouse seizure medications, and the doctors had told us in no uncertain terms that her next seizure could be the last.  Her prognosis was very poor.  At the same time, she was trapped in foster care by a system that did not believe critically ill children were adoptable, and also believed that life-saving treatments were not appropriate for the child that we loved as our own.  We were in a really bad place.

Many of you know the story........we were finally able to wade through the system and surgery was scheduled at OHSU in Portland, until the surgeon became ill and cancelled the procedure just one week before it was to happen.  We scrambled for another option, despite the constraints of state medical insurance that dictated her care.  We contacted Dr. Mathern, a renowned neurosurgeon at UCLA, and he agreed to see her for an evaluation.   This was when I met Monika Jones, who founded the Brain Recovery Peroject with her husband, Brad.  I did not know Monika, and she did not know me, but she invited me in stay in her home while we were in Los Angelas.  Her son, Henry, had experienced hemispherectomy surgery and she became my lifeline.  I have seen her reach countless other parents in similar ways when they were at the lowest point in the journey.We were here:



We did not end up going to UCLA because of Angie's insurance constraints, and you know the rest of the story.  But, I want you to know that Monika and the Brain Recovery Project has been by our side throughout the process of helping Angie (our sweet Angela now) to recover from major brain surgery, and to navigate Life After a Miracle.  The BRP is not one of thise nonprofits that solicits donations every year for an elusive mission that pulls at heartstrings but nobody really understands.  The BRP is personal.

Because of the Brain Recovery Project, we have learned how to adovcate for educational services that truly fit Angela's learning style, based on her disability.  At age 9, she began to read because of the information we gained about learning to read after hemispherectomy-and wonderful school support.  The BRP has funded important research that informs families about how children, and adults, are impacted by major brain surgery. The organization supports innovative solutions to help children regain hand function and other skills, and they provide advocacy and support services for families through the IEP process.  The BRP plans "reunions" for families so we can meet an encourage one another, and so the children can meet and form friendships with others like them.  About 150 children in the U.S. undergo hemispherectomy surgery for treatment of seizures every year, and many others have other surgical measures to treat seizures.  We can reach out to the BRP for help at any time as new challenges come up.  And we do.



The Brain Recovery Project touches people. The results of their efforts are evident in our family's lives and in others like us, every day.  If you were able to give-THANK YOU.  You have touched people directly with your gift.  You can see the ongoing progress of the campaign, or make a gift, by going to the link below.  Our family is so grateful.  I will leave you with one of my favorite pictures, taken of Angie gripping Toby's hand before she had come out of the anesthesia after surgery:



https://thebrainrecoveryproject2017.causevox.com/kara-harris