We have been keeping a low profile this week.  I have felt the need to hold my family close.  We are circling the wagons and this has been a tough week.  The secret is out-our son is a crime victim and his offender has been released from jail.  These are tough times and we have to rely on our faith to push on through it.  God will have His justice and we don't get to decide what it is.  Now, to explain to my son about a justice system that is bent towards offender's rights....

Please respect our privacy regarding this matter.  We have refused multiple requests for media interviews so our son is not exploited in any way.  Please do the same if you are approached.  This is a small town and we all have to live here together. This is a time for solidarity, not judgment.  Let's stand together for what is right without condemning those who disagree.  Again, justice is not ours to determine, as hard as that is.

Our community will get through this.  We need to help those who are hurt. Smile when you see them in town.  Offer words of encouragement if you have an opportunity.  Accept that they may be behaving differently than you would expect as they work through the pain.  Don't assume you know how they feel.  Be gentle and accepting.

We love the community of Clatskanie.  We chose to raise our family here and we have never looked back or regretted it, even now.  Bad things happen everywhere.  But, please, learn something from our experience.  Teach your children that although strangers can be scary, they are not usually the ones who will hurt them.  Predators are looking for vulnerable children who look up to and respect them. Who have been enticed by a family relationship, special treats, and fun shared activities.  Teach your children.  Right now.  Today.