I guess I thought that Angie's classmates tolerated her. I knew that they were sweet and understanding about her limitations and they are always happy to help her as needed. They have seen her struggle to learn the rules and routines of kindergarten and sometimes it has not been pretty. You know what, though? They actually adore her. She is one of them. They treat her as equally important and special as they treat each other. They CHEERED for her as she took her turn batting at the pinata. They each wanted to be the one to sit by her. They engaged her in play and in conversations, and she responded in kind. It was a true celebration of the amazing girl we all know and love.
Angie's school helper, Mrs. Villines came to celebrate Angie, too. Mrs. Villines is often the recipient of Angie's frustrated behavior but she has been a champ. Watching her with Angie, I know how fortunate Angie is to have someone who loves and understands her despite her challenges and difficult behaviors. Mrs. Villines has spent the school year "learning" Angie and she has helped to create a routine that really works for Angie. We are so glad she could celebrate with us.
Today was perfect, but a tiny bit bittersweet. This week, we made the final decision, with Angie's IEP team, for her to repeat another year of Kindergarten. She will not be joining these friends in first grade. I know she will still see them in school and she will still have their friendship, but it is hard not be a little bit sad. I know we have made the best decision for Angie and that is most important. These children will always have a special place in my heart for their love and acceptance for Angie. They have made her adjustment to school kinder and gentler and she will have many memories of their year together. That is a priceless gift.
Happy birthday to our amazing Angie! Every day with you is better than the one before. You are a true gift from God.
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